Exclusion, restraint and school attendance problems
How often autistic students are excluded, restrained or kept away from school, why it happens, and what the evidence says about what follows.
How often autistic students are sent out of school, held still, or kept away, why it happens, and what comes later.
How common school exclusion is Established
In a total-population study of every pupil aged 7 to 16 in Wales, children with an autism diagnosis were about two and a half times as likely to be excluded as children with no recorded diagnosis (adjusted odds ratio 2.6).1 Record-linkage studies in Scotland and England find the same direction: autistic pupils are excluded more often than pupils with no special educational needs.2,3
How common exclusion is depends on how it is counted. Studies that use school records count formal exclusion only. In Wales, 4.7% of autistic children aged 7 to 11 had been excluded, and the proportion rose with age.1 In England in 2016/17, 4.5% of autistic pupils had at least one fixed-period exclusion, and the rate of fixed-period exclusions was about three times that of pupils with no special educational needs.3
Studies that ask parents count more. In the UK Millennium Cohort Study, 25% of autistic 14-year-olds had been temporarily or permanently excluded at least once, by parent report.4 The authors say this is higher than school-record figures because their measure includes informal and unrecorded exclusions, and because it asks whether the child was ever excluded rather than counting a single school year.4 In an Ontario survey, 42.3% of caregivers said their autistic child had been excluded at some point.5 Fifteen percent of the autistic 14-year-olds in the UK cohort said they had truanted at least once in the past year.4
Co-occurring conditions add to the likelihood. In the Ontario survey, autistic children who also had ADHD were about one and a half times as likely to be excluded as those without.5
Autistic students are sent out of school more often than other students. In Wales, researchers looked at every student aged 7 to 16. Autistic students were about two and a half times as likely to be excluded.1 Studies in Scotland and England found the same thing.2,3
The numbers depend on how you count. School records count only official suspensions and expulsions. In Wales, 4.7% of autistic children aged 7 to 11 had been excluded. In England in 2016/17, 4.5% of autistic students had been excluded at least once.1,3 When researchers ask parents, they count more. In a UK study, 25% of autistic 14-year-olds had been excluded at least once.4 In a Canadian survey, 42.3% of parents said their child had been excluded.5 Some students also skip school: 15% of the autistic 14-year-olds in the UK study said they had.4
Students who also have ADHD were more likely to be excluded.5
Record-linkage studies in Wales, Scotland and England agree that autistic pupils are excluded more often than other pupils. How large the gap looks depends on how exclusion is counted.
A school record counts a formal suspension or expulsion. It does not count a child sent home early or moved to another school without a formal exclusion, which parents may report as exclusion. A parent-report figure of 25% and a school-record figure of about 5% can describe the same UK schools under different counting rules.
Studies in Wales, Scotland and England agree on this. How big the numbers look depends on how they are counted.
A school record counts an official suspension or expulsion. It does not count a child sent home early or moved to another school. Parents may count those as exclusion too.
Attendance and absence Established
Autistic students miss more school than their peers.6 In a New Zealand study of all children aged 5 to 12, 49.3% of autistic students attended regularly, against 61.2% of matched non-autistic students, and 7.7% were chronically absent, against 3.2%.7 In one survey of parents of 486 autistic students, 43% had persistent absence, meaning they missed more than 10% of school days.8 In an Australian survey of 77 families, over 40% of autistic children had persistent absence, and child anxiety was the strongest predictor.9
The reasons differ from those for school absence in general. In the survey of 486 families, school refusal or avoidance accounted for 43% of absences, ordinary illness and medical appointments for 32%, school exclusion for 9%, and withdrawal by parents for 9%; truancy was almost absent.8 In a Norwegian study of 78 autistic students and 138 classmates, all aged 9 to 16 and without intellectual disability, teachers reported school refusal behavior in 42.6% of the autistic students, against 7.1% of the others.10 A UK study of 947 families whose children were struggling to attend school found that 83.4% of the children were autistic.11
Autistic students miss more school than other students.6 In New Zealand, 49.3% of autistic students went to school regularly, compared with 61.2% of other students. And 7.7% of autistic students missed a lot of school, compared with 3.2% of others.7 In one survey, 43% of autistic students missed more than 10% of school days.8 In an Australian survey of 77 families, over 40% had missed a lot of school.9
Why do they miss school? In the survey of 486 families, school avoidance caused 43% of absences. Ordinary illness and appointments caused 32%. Exclusion caused 9%, and parents keeping a child home caused 9%. Skipping school without permission was almost never the reason.8 In a Norwegian study, teachers said 42.6% of autistic students avoided school, compared with 7.1% of other students.10 In a UK study of 947 families, 83.4% of the children who struggled to go to school were autistic.11
A scoping review of 42 studies found that register-based studies from the United States and the United Kingdom consistently show higher absence for autistic students.
Missing more than 10% of school days, whether the absence is authorized or not.
A review of 42 studies agrees on this. The studies that used school records, in the US and UK, found the same thing.
Missing more than 10% of school days.
What drives exclusion and absence Emerging
The studies that ask autistic students and their families why exclusion and absence happen most often name school-level factors: the sensory and social demands of school, support that does not match need, bullying, and inadequate staff training.12,5,13 A systematic review of 18 studies found most risk factors at the level of the school, with child, family and school factors interacting.14 Child mental-health difficulties also go with exclusion and absence, as they do for students generally.4 In a UK study that interviewed autistic pupils, parents and professionals, the same pupils attended and even enjoyed school when the right support was in place.12
One survey found that parents who were more satisfied with their child's individualized education plan were less likely to report exclusion.5 That is an association, and the direction cannot be settled from a single survey.
When researchers ask autistic students and families, they most often name things at school. These are noise and social demands at school, support that does not fit, bullying, and teachers who were not trained.12,5,13 A review of 18 studies found most risk factors were at school. Child, family and school factors all interact.14 Mental-health difficulties also go with missing school.4 In a UK study, the same students went to school and even liked it when the support was right.12
One survey found that parents who were happier with their child's school plan reported less exclusion.5 This is a link, not proof of cause.
These findings come mainly from interviews and surveys rather than controlled studies. They agree with each other, but they cannot show cause.
In the studies and in community writing, the preferred term is school avoidance, because refusal suggests a deliberate choice when the child is often afraid or overwhelmed. This entry uses both, matching the source.
Most of these findings come from interviews and surveys, not controlled studies. They agree with each other, but they cannot prove cause.
Many people prefer the words school avoidance. "Refusal" sounds like the child is choosing, when often the child is scared or overwhelmed.
Restraint and seclusion Established
United States schools report the use of restraint and seclusion to the Civil Rights Data Collection. In the 2023-24 collection, schools reported physically restraining 61,146 students who were served under the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA) and secluding 21,868.15 Students served under IDEA made up 14.5% of enrollment but 72.5% of the students physically restrained and 67.8% of those secluded.15 The figures are self-reported by districts. A US Government Accountability Office review in 2019 found the federal restraint figures were substantially incomplete, with most districts reporting none.16
The Civil Rights Data Collection groups students by disability status, not by diagnosis, so it does not show how often autistic students in particular are restrained.15 No study found as of October 2026 has measured how often autistic students are restrained in school.
In the United States, schools report two things. The first is restraint, when staff hold a student still. The second is seclusion, when staff shut a student alone in a room. In the 2023-24 school year, schools reported restraining 61,146 students with disabilities. They reported secluding 21,868.15 Students with disabilities were 14.5% of all students. But they were 72.5% of the students who were physically restrained, and 67.8% of those secluded.15 The numbers are sent in by the schools themselves. A government audit in 2019 found many schools left them out.16
The data do not say how many autistic students are restrained. They group all disabilities together.15
United States federal data, collected every two years, consistently show that students with disabilities are restrained and secluded at rates far above their share of enrollment. The data do not report autism separately, and a federal audit found them incomplete.
The Individuals with Disabilities Education Act, the United States law that funds special education and gives eligible students an individualized education plan.
United States data, collected every two years, agree on this. The data do not report autism on its own, and an audit found them incomplete.
A United States law that pays for special education and gives students a school plan.
What follows Emerging
Exclusion and absence go with worse outcomes later. In the UK Millennium Cohort Study, exclusion during secondary school partly explained the link between autism and externalizing difficulties, such as conduct and hyperactivity problems, at age 17; there was no evidence that it explained internalizing difficulties, such as anxiety and low mood.17 In the Avon Longitudinal Study of Parents and Children, a general-population birth cohort, boys excluded by age 8 already had higher mental-health scores at age 3, and the gap widened over time; teenage girls excluded by 16 showed worsening mental health afterwards.18 An analysis of two UK national surveys found that children with psychiatric difficulties were more likely to be excluded whether or not the difficulties had been recognized, and the authors concluded that exclusion may reflect a failure to provide timely support rather than a failure to recognize the problem.19
These are associations from cohort studies. They do not show that exclusion causes the later difficulties, although the mediation analysis was designed to estimate how much of the link runs through exclusion.17,18
Exclusion goes with worse mental health later. In a UK study, being excluded partly explained why autistic teenagers had more behavior and attention problems at age 17. It did not explain their anxiety or low mood.17 In another UK study, boys excluded by age 8 already had worse mental health at age 3. The gap grew over time. Girls excluded by 16 got worse afterwards.18 A third study found children were more likely to be excluded whether or not their mental-health difficulties had been recognized.19
These are links, not proof that exclusion causes the problems.
One cohort study finds that exclusion explains part of the later mental-health gap. The other findings come from a birth cohort and two national surveys, none of which followed autistic people specifically.
One study finds exclusion explains part of the later mental-health gap. Other findings come from a birth cohort and two national surveys. They did not follow autistic people only.
In the community Community
Autistic writers describe school as the environment that did the most damage. Pete Wharmby, who taught for ten years, calls it "the harshest environment", and writes that schools "have been designed with aims and ambitions in mind that are not well suited to the neurodivergent minority".c1 Writers describe being disciplined for autistic traits that staff did not understand. Julia Bascom recalls being taught "quiet hands" in preschool, her hands held down "for a count of three until they learned to restrain themselves".c2
The words people use matter to them. The clinicians Donna Henderson, Sarah Wayland and Jamell White write that school avoidance is the better term, because refusal suggests a deliberate choice when the child is often afraid or overwhelmed; many autistic writers use the same term.c3 Carly Jones describes a girl whose occasional absence "progressed into complete school refusal", which was burnout rather than rebellion.c4 Bianca Toeps writes that she stayed home because she "simply couldn't cope anymore" at school, after "constant adjusting and masking".c5
Restraint and seclusion are described in community writing as abuse rather than care. Ashburn, Edwards and Onaiwu write that students with disabilities "are restrained, secluded, and expelled at much higher rates than those without disabilities", and call for schools "free from restraint and seclusion".c6 Bascom's collection records restraint equipment sent to schools for a seven-year-old.c2 Amy Pearson and Kieran Rose write that restraint and seclusion are used frequently in education, not as a last resort, and that this causes lasting harm.c7 A collection for educational psychologists argues that school exclusion is linked to later involvement with the criminal justice system, and that improving engagement is the alternative.c8
Many autistic writers say school was the hardest place they went. Pete Wharmby, who taught for ten years, calls it "the harshest environment". He says schools were built without thinking about autistic students.c1 Some writers were punished for things that came from being autistic. Julia Bascom remembers being taught "quiet hands" in preschool. Staff held her hands down until she learned to keep them still.c2
Words matter. Many people say school avoidance instead of school refusal. "Refusal" sounds like the child is choosing, when often the child is scared or overwhelmed.c3 Carly Jones writes about a girl whose missed days grew into not going at all. It was burnout, not rebellion.c4 Bianca Toeps stayed home because she "simply couldn't cope anymore" after "constant adjusting and masking".c5
Autistic writers describe restraint and seclusion as harm, not help. Ashburn, Edwards and Onaiwu write that students with disabilities are restrained and secluded far more than other students. They call for schools with none of it.c6 Bascom's book tells of restraint equipment sent to schools for a seven-year-old.c2 Pearson and Rose write that restraint and seclusion are used often in schools, not just as a last resort.c7
How autistic writers describe school, exclusion, restraint and missing school, in their own words.
How autistic writers describe school, in their own words.
Sources
Research
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- 3Hatton C. School absences and exclusions experienced by children with learning disabilities and autistic children in 2016/17 in England. Tizard Learning Disability Review, 2018. https://doi.org/10.1108/TLDR-07-2018-0021
- 4Totsika V, Gray KM, Solmi F. Exclusion and Truancy of Autistic Adolescents in a UK Population Representative Sample. Child: Care, Health and Development, 2025. https://doi.org/10.1111/cch.70187
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- 8Totsika V, Hastings RP, Dutton Y, Worsley A, Melvin G, Gray K, et al. Types and correlates of school non-attendance in students with autism spectrum disorders. Autism, 2020. https://doi.org/10.1177/1362361320916967
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- 15US Department of Education, Office for Civil Rights. Civil Rights Data Collection, 2023-24. https://civilrightsdata.ed.gov/
- 16US Government Accountability Office. K-12 Education: Education Should Take Immediate Action to Address Inaccuracies in Federal Restraint and Seclusion Data. GAO-19-551R, 2019. https://www.gao.gov/products/gao-19-551r
- 17Yeoman M, Cieplinska V, Lye V, Totsika V. School Exclusion as a Partial Mediator Between Autism and Adolescent Mental Health. Journal of Autism and Developmental Disorders, 2026. https://doi.org/10.1007/s10803-026-07550-7
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Community sources
- c1Wharmby P. Untypical: How the World Isn't Built for Autistic People and What We Should All Do About It. Mudlark, 2023. Chapter "School: The Harshest Environment". Pete Wharmby's site
- c2Bascom J, ed. Loud Hands: Autistic People, Speaking. The Autistic Press, 2012. Chapter "Quiet Hands". Julia Bascom's site
- c3Henderson D, Wayland S, White J. Is This Autism? A Guide for Clinicians and Everyone Else. Routledge, 2023. Chapter "School avoidance".
- c4Jones C. Safeguarding Autistic Girls: Strategies for Professionals. Jessica Kingsley Publishers, 2021. Chapter "Burnout".
- c5Toeps B. But You Don't Look Autistic at All. Self-published, 2020. Chapter "The Pink Tower". Bianca Toeps's site
- c6Ashburn M, Edwards J, Onaiwu M. I Will Die On This Hill: Autistic Adults, Autism Parents, and the Children Who Deserve a Better World. Jessica Kingsley Publishers, 2023. Chapter "School Inclusion and Safety".
- c7Pearson A, Rose K. Autistic Masking: Understanding Identity Management and the Role of Stigma. Pavilion Publishing and Media, 2023. Chapter "Behavioural Interventions".
- c8Gainsborough J, ed. Effective Support and Education of Autistic Young People: Educational Psychology Perspectives. Jessica Kingsley Publishers, 2022. Chapter "Concluding Thoughts".